So I’m a straight male, and my female s/o is bi. As a guy I’ve always tried to prevent myself from sleeping in the same bed of people that I’m not in a relationship with. Also, from my perspective, guys don’t really ever sleep in the same bed if they have a sleepover, only if they need to on a camping trip or in a hotel or whatever.
Long story short, my s/o likes sleeping in bed with her female friends. Probably like one of 3-5 different friends twice a week. A couple of them are bi as well. It’s not like an every night thing, and she assures me that all of her friendships are platonic, and I fully believe and trust her. She’s been doing this since high school, and she tells me it’s a normal thing for girls to do.
It’s just that I feel it’s a reasonable expectation that she shouldn’t be sleeping in the same bed with other women, but she doesn’t think that. I’ve had a hard time explaining why I have this concern as well, besides what I wrote above. What do you guys think?