i m 23 year old woman. i opend this acc to share my problem. before i get into it i want to say that i m not on any kind of medication and i dont use drugs or other stimulants. i dont need to watch porn and i dont have a masturbating addiction. i dont have any problem with my sex drive or my lubrication. But i cant reach climax or orgasm. even trying solo bc masurbating or touching my clit/vulva at a certain point it becomes unbearable and i stop touching. It feels like it's hurting. and it reaches to this point so fast i dont understand. this thing happens sometimes in 2 minutes. i dont feel relaxed or in good a mood or idk. i feel mostly numb and dont want to touch myself anymore. it happens with my partner too. when my partner doing oral i feel good somtimes using fingers at the same time feels really good but after couple of minutes i cant bear it and i stop my partner.
i m listening girls
pls tell me something
btw english is my second language i think i did some mistakes.