Anyway, I am 29 F and have been single for 2 years now. I had a messy breakup situation, but everything is getting better now.
I have been to 4 dates in total this year and none of them are looking for something long-term. I went out with them because at those moments, I was also looking to have fun. And boy, I did. I also went to bars and clubs every weeknights to meet new people. I did meet a lot of people but again, non of them ended up as a potential love interest.
I work from home right now and I have been seeing a lot of posts online about couples and I can't help but want to be in a situation wherein I am also in a happy relationship.
When I started going out and dating again this year, I thought I was only looking for something casual and fun. But now, I'm realising that I am a relationship girly. I do not like uncertainties and feeling insecure. I want someone to want me and build a life with me.
I have deleted my dating app because I lost hope lol. I still feel that way about dating apps. Even guys my age and older are still all about casual fun and looking for online fun. I rarely go out nowadays too, so I have slim chances of finding someone.
I want to travel someday because I feel like that's how I'll meet someone. I'm also open to getting to know someone online but again, usually it doesn't end right.
Are you also in the same ordeal as me? Why is dating so complicated these days? Lol