My boyfriend and I are planning to go to a red room getaway for our birthdays this year since they're 3 days apart.
We have sex quite often. He definitely prefers giving, but he does like receiving oral. The problem is that he has quite a big/long dick and my gag reflex is HORRIBLE.
I've tried sex-safe things specifically for deepthroating purposes, like things you can swallow or apply to the back of your throat to help gag reflexes but they don't seem to work all that well. I've tried just relaxing so my throat opens more. I've tried so many things.
I'd like to be able to make our getaway even better by me being able to give him the best head of his life and taking that all in, but I'm really not sure my gag reflex can handle it.
I'm sure I'm not alone in this experience so any advice or products that actually work would be great!!
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