I'm 30M, and she's 29F. We've known each other for just two weeks, but we've hung out almost every day, spending a lot of time together. She's funny, like, really funny, she loves roasting me, and she laughs a lot when I roast her back. We're both competitive; our first date was table tennis and mini-golf, where she tried hard to beat me at both.
She's genuine, thoughtful, and communicates incredibly well. She can convey what she means with very few words, always polite. She's kind, empathetic, supportive, and knows what she likes and dislikes (Hiroshima and Nagasaki jokes are a big no, but 9/11 jokes make her laugh a lot, oddly enough). On top of all that, she's very pretty, modest, and has one of the best smiles I've ever seen. We slept together after watching *Before Sunrise* on our third date, and it was amazing.
Basically, I've fallen head over heels for her.
A bit about me: I've been told I'm very good-looking, and I've also been offered modeling gigs, but I’m successful in my career as a software developer, so I haven't pursued them. I'm about to buy a house in London, and I'm happy with my dating life. I get more Bumble likes than I have time for. My friends often say I have an easy time with women. I'm not trying to brag, just giving context.
Here's my question: How early is too early to take a gamble on someone? I truly believe she's the one. This has never happened to me before. She checks all my boxes and more.
However, I'm mindful of not overwhelming her. I'd happily drop everything and move to Japan if she has to go back (she's here on a youth mobility visa). She feels I might be coming on a bit "too much" with how strongly I feel. But what if I genuinely believe she's the one? Am I supposed to play it cool, hide how I feel? Wouldn't that be disingenuous or even fake?
I've already reached out to a few women I’ve been seeing (some for almost two months) to let them know I’ve found someone I really like and want to pursue something long-term with her.
If you need more context, feel free to ask or DM me.