My (28F) partner (31M) has expressed an interest in getting pegged.
We do light anal stuff already, I rim him and finger him fairly regularly. As far as I’m aware, he’s never douched prior to having sex, but he’s always clean down there. I’m pretty sure it just comes down to having a very fibrous diet. That being said, is it stupid of me to expect that he’d be clean (like normal) if I pegged him with something larger than a finger? The dildo we bought is fairly small (5.5in length, 4.5in circumference) but is there a chance it could … dislodge something?
I don’t receive anal myself so I don’t really know how this works. I would love to be able to peg him spontaneously without having to worry about douching but if that’s invariably going to end up being extremely messy then I might have to have a conversation with him about it. A small amount of residue or whatever on the dildo probably wouldn’t bother me (he’s lucky I love him), but I’ve heard some horror stories and I would hate to have that happen to us. Any thoughts?