My (26f) boyfriend (30m) started taking testosterone shots several months ago so he could preform better in the gym. He was getting angry and lost patience a lot easier, but up until a few weeks ago that was my only complaint.
We had sex on average 4-5 times a week. Recently he’s wanted sex more often, which is fine and something I expected. So now we’re having sex every day. But on top of that, he watches porn and masturbates about three times a day. So by the time he has sex with me he’s already jerked off at least twice.
Because of this, it will take him about 45 minutes to an hour to cum when we have sex. His penis is an above average size, so after awhile it can become painful for me or I’ll go completely numb down there. I normally end up having to give him a blow job for an additional 20 minutes for him to finally cum.
This was never an issue before! 15 minutes max and he was done for. I’ve tried telling him he’s jerking off too much and desensitizing himself and watching too much pron. But he’s telling me that I’m too loose??? All of a sudden???
Any advice is appreciated.