How can I (21F) find people who share my kinks in my community?

I (21F) have always been interesting in someone bending me over and spanking me for being naughty. I feel like it’s not too crazy of a kink but I do not find many people who are interested in doing something like that. I am starting to think I also want to explore other kinks as well but I don’t know if sex communities are really a thing or where I can find people for group sex. Is this a thing that people can find in their communities or is that just in the movies. Sorry I know this post is all over the place but I have just really wanted to explore my sexual side. Help a girl out! Thank you in advance.