I turned 27 in July and I’m a late bloomer – I’ve never kissed or dated a girl before. Right now I feel like I’m ready to date – the only problem is I have anxiety related to my height. I’m 5’4 ( I’m an immigrant and I was malnourished as a child , I remember I was always hungry ) and a lot of girls in New York City are around my height or taller than me. I assume girls are not interested in me due to my height and Im not sure how to flirt with girls since I have no experience. I feel I’m less of a men especially when I go to clubs/bars because I’m not that tall and it effects my confidence a lot.
I have address the problem by doing voice calls/ video calls with girls and I feel normal and happy when doing so. Also have done happy ending massages to address my lack of intimate experience. For the most part they have helped me with my confidence issues. I want to cold approach girls and asking them out rather than dating apps.
For anyone that have been in a similar experience or situation how did you overcome the anxiety? Thank you