I’ve [24F] been going out with my bf [28M] for 4 months now. The problem is, I probably only see him for 5 hours a month. He works most days morning to late nights and is off for 2 days a week. When he is off he will usually see me on those days for an hour or two and his friends for the rest of the day and the next day too. I live about 40 minutes away but his friends live about 1-2 hours away. I’m in college and specifically get work done early so I can have more time with him. I plan my time for the week accordingly so I can continue my relationship and also do well in school. When we do hang out we watch a movie and then he leaves. I can’t help but feel like he’s not really in this relationship. We still haven’t said I love you also and haven’t connected on a deeper level. He’s a nice guy and does sweet things for me but I never see him. I’m not sure how to feel. What would you do?
TL;DR: Bf makes time for friends and for work but not for me. We spend less than 10 hours together each month.