Hey all. I have one healthy boy and I have always been very happy and content with just him. I recently got pregnant again by surprise. My husband always wants two and had been trying to talk to me into this for a while so the surprised pregnancy of course makes him very happy. I was like oh well if it happens then I’ll go along with it. A few weeks down the road, I actually ended up having a missed miscarriage and I’m now waiting for the surgery to remove the fetus. I’m not really in the mood of wanting another one or even trying at this point. Yesterday during an argument my hormones got over me and I told him I would not want a second one anymore. He was very upset and forcing me to give him a clear answer whether I want a second one or not. I’m still waiting for the surgery at this point and am really not in the mood but he insists. I just felt so so sad. My husband isn’t supportive of my decision on what I want to do with my body and giving me a hard time. I don’t feel loved or supportive. I can understand his wants that he always wants a second one but for me, the base line is that he should be happy with just one and if the second one happens then happens. I am so turned off by the whole attitude and am really considering a divorce right now. I feel that his happiness is contingent on having a second one and that makes me feel so worthless.
I am just curious what others think of the situation or have been considering the same thing.