Hey , I(24F) for the first time tried online dating and have been on 2 dates with a guy . I just can’t figure if he’s into me or not even though he’s made it clear multiple times that he wants to date (not me but generally) . What is confusing here is he doesn’t really seem to make efforts to text or meet . But is very different when we meet , we talk a lot , he makes me laugh , drives me home basically feels like he’s into me . And he’s also told me that he isn’t really a texting person so he does miss a lot of texts .
Also Idk if this is an imp information but he told me yesterday between this texting conversation only that he just can’t do things you do to get in a relationship he just wants to skip to the good part like the comfort etc etc .
I just want to ask as a third person do you think he’s interested ? Or do you think I should just stop seeing him altogether because this ain’t going anywhere.
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That stuff about skipping things to get to “comfort” sounds shady. Especially since he doesn’t put in any effort to meet up. Even if he isn’t a “texting person”, he can just call, arrange and pick you up.
Rushing things usually doesn’t go well.