Hi! I'm 27F and starting to get worried because since I started having sex, I never had any pleasure, just pain during penetration.
It started with my first boyfriend, we spent 5 years together just doing oral sex because when we tried it always hurt like hell, I felt needles everywere and he could even get the tip in.
Then with my second boyfriend I finally was able to have sex, it didn't hurt like hell like before but it was a sensation that I can only describe as annoying. I didn't feel pleasure and I never have. As of now, I really can't do it, i sometimes force myself to.please my boyfriend and because i love having that kind of connection even if it doesn't bring me pleasure but I really don't understand what is wrong with me. Gyno says everything is ok and I don't have any issue. But I'm starting to worry because It's been 3 months since having penetrative sex because it either hurts or it's annoying.
Even with his fingers I get just a little bit of pleasure when he puts them in a certain position but that's it, I don't feel anything else. Did anybody have a similar issue? If yes did you solve it or do you have any advice??
I only had orgasms thanks to vibrators lol