I have a previous post about this gem and yes even though there were some red flags I still met him. He has 6 kids, apparently divorced and we had fought a lot in the past. I told him we should be friends with benefits and it caused us to meet last night.
He was an hour late. He originally told me he was not going to be around and to travel to see him. I agreed. He then said he had a change of plans and would be by his job, I agreed. I got there at 7:45pm, he told me to wait 15 minutes…around 8:30 he told me he was around the area as he had to make an errand.
I told him he could have just cancelled as I was waiting and didn't know what was going on. When we met up he was not nice. He said I could have a nicer car. I have a Porsche, he has a Mercedes. He said I am a really nice girl but I am sensitive and say weird things. I told him I was not sure where this was coming from considering we kind of made up and were only looking for sex.
He proceeded to hook up with me where I couldnt move. I tried to get him off me to breathe but he did not release at all. I then tasted blood in my mouth and when he spit, it was all blood. I was gagging. He told me I look like an unhappy person but I have it all.
He did not want to have sex and I told him I may have a friend who is better fit for him. His response, "Why not you?" He told me he could have any girl he wants at his becking call. That is the best most affluent man. I said that's great. Why even waste our time here. I kinda just wanted some dick.
I left for the night. He told me he had to wake up early and do errands which was not sure as I found out today. We gave each other our goodbyes last night but why does he still insist to contact me? I did not text him last night telling him I got home. He did not ask. Around 10am he snaps me a picture of a bedsheet. I just liked it and he said thanks. I said no problem and he said ok whatever…
So confused as this is some child behavior. He seems like a very hurt individual. I do not plan on seeing him again but to be honest I don't even think he qualifies as a friend. What is all of this behavior if we agreed to be friends with benefits?
tl;dr- I 33/F met 46/M and the first meet was absolutely horrible. I would never date him but we wanted to meet as FWB. We never ended up having sex as he spoke to be like he hates me but still texts me.