I (M23) have been seeing this girl (F20) for about 3 months now and I find her amazing in almost all areas (looks georgeous, we share our values, I like spending time with her, she is fun and easy to talk to, overall great personality). She checks all the boxes, makes me feel accepted and loved, I like being around her.
However, despite finding her amazing in almost all aspects I haven't developed any romantic feelings towards her (no butterflies, shaky hands, thinking about her all the time etc.). The more I see her the more I like her but it's almost as if something were holding me back from developing deeper feelings.
I really don't want to lose her and I know that we could have an amazing relationship, but I don't think it's fair to her that I am still being around if I can't give her the love she deserves.
I am generally a more shy, anxious and held back person and have developed romantic feelings slowly in the past, so I don't know if that might be the problem.
What am I to do? I've never met a girl of her quality before and I really don't want to lose her, but I don't know if I should give it more time or just call it off and (hopefully) hurt her less now than at some point in the future. Is there something wrong with me or is she just not right? Because I can't find a logical explanation for why I couldn't like her.
TL;DR I am seeing a girl I find amazing in all aspects but I can't develop romantic feelings towards her