I (24F) want to meet a nice guy (preferably in RL ) and see where things lead.
The thing is I’m not sure how to do this. I’m not afraid of rejection I'm just very shy and the uncertainty of whether or not the guy is in a relationship doesn't help.
Dating apps are not for me and meeting men at a club I feel like most men just want a ONS (and I'm looking for something long term) or they're too shy and submissive, and I am already a shy person. I'm not looking for anyone even more than me.
How can I approach a guy without seeming desperate? And what are the best places to meet man?
P.S: I'm from a more "sexist" country. Here most men only take a woman seriously if they're the ones "chasing" the woman.