I’m 29M, 6’ wearing Vans. I work in software sales, have a roommate, hit the gym 3-4 times/week, and have little in the way of savings. Outside of work, I have 3 motorcycles, a German SUV that I work on, a Pitbull mix who I love, and go snowboarding pretty much every weekend in the winter. I also like hiking, longboarding, and smoke about 3 cigars per week.
I’ve been told that I should get back out there but I’m self conscious due to a past that I’ve left behind.
What do you think?