Me and him knew each other for a while before getting together. I’ve always loved the way he looked before getting in a relationship with me. I really liked that he was not too thin, yet not too big (this is obviously based on my preferences). As soon as he got with me, he got into a strict diet and became very thin. I will say that I’m a skinny woman and there’s not a great difference between my arms and his. We both workout consistently but I have a normal diet, no specific restrictions, accept my cravings but still try to keep it healthy. On the other hand, he is convinced to be in the healthiest phase of his life but he practically eats like a rabbit. I am repulsed by his body right now but I don’t know if it’s fair to share. I’ve tried to encourage him to eat more or jokingly saying I loved his little belly before… but I have the feeling he perceive it as me trying to sabotage him. I’m perplexed by the situation and wondering if I’m the cause of all of this… he has always praised how in shape I am and how he thinks I’m more good looking than him. I’m convinced this is an attempt to look better for me… but I hate the way he looks. He looks simply unhealthy and if I would be understanding on him wanting to tone his body and maybe lose a pound or two, the reality is far beyond that. Being that skinny is not his body type and also happens to be something that it’s not attractive TO ME. I don’t want a man that feels more delicate than me but at the same time I have no idea how to approach this since it’s a very shallow concern. He already lifts weights but as we all probably know you need some protein and real food other than lettuce to grow muscle. As shallow as it sounds this is affecting our sex life and I feel like it’s time to do or say something. Thank y’all for any advice that could help in this situation!
I hope this post is not going to trigger anyone. I did specify that being slightly more muscular than skinny is simply my preference and I’m not trying to offend anyone who is more on the skinny side🙏🏻