I’ve been dating this girl for a year and a half. We met all the way back in 6th grade and we dated a little through middle school. Freshman year she started talking to this one guy. He ended things with her before they dated and I was there for her. I soon caught feelings for her and had some dreams about us being together. One thing led to another and we started dating. At around the 10 month mark she started liking the same guy again in a relationship with me but I still loved her and didn’t see anyone else in my life. So, I forgave her and we worked on problems outside of that. At around the 14 month mark, it started again and it broke me. I trusted her again after what had happened and it bit me in the ass. Still… didn’t want to let go, and she broke up with me. Still talked it out a bit. Then she asked me if I would be mad if she told me that she wanted me back(this was an hour after she ended it on the same day💀), she told me that she needed me and that she made a mistake. She said she was also willing to completely forget about him and that it would NEVER happen again. I was confused as hell. Of course I took her back and told her that if it happens again( her liking him) that I would never trust her again and that I’d despise her. Currently a month ish later. You can probably guess😂… shi is starting to happen AGAIN. I just don’t want to let go and as of right now we’re still dating and trying to work through it. I just feel betrayed and unloved. Someone help.
PS- our relationship didn’t just have that problem, there was lots of things I could’ve fixed to help prevent it from happening again and I blame my self for a partial amount of it. I feel like I lacked acknowledgment of what I was doing wrong and how I could’ve treated her better.