I ‘23F’ have been dating this guy ‘26M’ for nearing 2 months and I girl bossed too close to the sun and found his Reddit. Now I was expecting to find some nerd gaming stuff and some porn but what I found was a lot and idk if I go on acting like I never saw it, if I bring it up or leave. He’s posting porn of himself, responding to messages trying to hook up with random ppl, I found an Onlyfans account (empty) but he’s for sure subbed to ppl, him responding that he wants to “breed” a trans person ( M to F).
Now his last post was from 1 month before meeting me but I can’t help but feel like I might absolutely lose my shit if he posted again. I also feel like online he’s more open than when he speaks to me. He calls me every night til I fall asleep and during his lunch, I see him a good amount, has a pet name for me and as do I, and we’re intimate…. I don’t think he’s with anyone else and I really like him but honestly I feel hurt? Like he’s hiding himself from me and I don’t know what to do. I can live with the posting porn bc I’m not little miss daisy either but don’t know if I can look at him the same after seeing 50+ messages of him trying to hookup with random ppl with WHAT he was saying.
Do I ask him about it, ignore everything, or leave? Bc this will eat at me if I don’t have a conversation? HONESTLY what would you do in this situation?