I (25F) just found out that my (29M) fiancé cheated on me two years ago when I was home with our infant. I just found messages deleted but he took his phone before I could recover them.
I asked him what is was & he lied for HOURS in an intense argument and finally came out with “a girl from 2yrs ago” but after finding out who the girl was I realized she was in his search bar two weeks ago. After she admitted they were touching and kissing he finally admitted to it after seeing how bad it drove me crazy.. he says it was nothing and she meant nothing but if so why keep lying if u see how badly it hurts me? Why wait 2 years to delete the messages or do we all agree those were not the messages from the girl 2 yrs ago? I’m just trying to figure out what’s everyone’s opinion (specifically males) no mean comments please