Seeking advice. 22F , my boyfriend is 22M. we’ve been together for two years.
at first i really loved his family and i think they loved me too.
after a year together he cheated on me and it got messy. he involved his entire family in our arguments despite me begging him not to. his mother would say things like-
“you’re delusional. you have too much baggage. you’re projecting your past onto my son. my son has done nothing wrong. he isn’t a cheater. you’re a liar. you’re jealous and insecure.”
ever since his mother spat all those things at me, we haven’t spoken much. it’s insanely awkward everytime i go to his house now- even one whole year later. they make me feel really uncomfortable. they’ll say things like, “shouldn’t you be going?”
“i only want to eat when you leave. not with you.”
“you make no effort to speak to me anymore.” (neither do they.)
“you don’t do enough for the family or my son”
etc, etc, etc.
I don’t know what to do anymore. i hate his family so much that i refuse to go into his home or even speak to them. i get filled with rage anytime he sends me a picture with his mother or sister. i truly cannot stand them. is there even any hope for a relationship where you HATE his whole family? is it even worth trying? is it doomed?
on my end- my family adores him. there’s no issues on my side. it’s all pretty much his crazy ass mother and sister. Please help 🙁
TLDR- i don’t get along with my boyfriend’s family at all, and it has not improved in two years. is it even worth trying?