How do you prefer to orgasm and how often?

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1. Daily. If I’m off work, 3-4 times a day. I’m single, so masturbation.

2. My self and like once or twice a week

3. Alone and 3 times a night.

4. If I could have one every day from having sex with my partner, that would be a freakin’ *dream*.

   Realistically, I’m trying to give myself one daily. It feels a little… empty though. I dunno. I’m more of a “need some connection” type when it comes to this.

   It feels a lot more fun and euphoric if I’m getting one with my partner.

5. I’m down to twice a week at my age. I try and do something special for myself on “date” night. I like to give myself chocolate lol. If it’s really good I’ll smoke in bed.

6. When I was single I could easily go a week or longer without an orgasm, but with my partner I prefer at least a few per week. The connection I have with him is what I really crave.

7. i prefer from penetration but i love to orgasm from receiving head. for the most part, i just don’t want to ask so i just wait until he does it because i am very eager to give to him. i came seven times two nights ago. 🤗💣😉

8. Couple times a week preferably. I would prefer a partner to get me there but I’m single so I’ll stick to the vibrator or now.

9. Meh. I’ve always had a very low sex drive. Then various medications compounded that. Now that I’m off birth control, I actually have the highest drive I’ve ever had. Even then, as long as I get my rocks off once during my super horny phase (ovulation lol) I’m good. So once a month.

   More is fine but I don’t seek it out. But when I’m ovulating if I don’t orgasm I literally can’t think about anything else.

10. Intensly, often, as many times as I can.

    🤷‍♂️

11. I am a DIY kind of girl. No one else does it as well as I do. Not since the early 90s anyway. 😂

    I don’t do it that often, though. Maybe once a month?

12. Cunnilingus or the clit stimulator on my strap on. Mine isn’t the most important tbh

13. At least 5 times a week, but usually more. I’m married and my husband gets me there 100% of the time.

14. Daily-ish. Sometimes I’ll skip a day or two but make up for it by doing it a couple times a day. 
    I’m single so I do it myself 

15. I love seeing these responses. Mostly cuz it shows that men are wrong in being jealous of vibrators. There are hundreds of amazing and expensive vibratory out there, and most of the women here much much prefer a connection than a vibrator. And I love that and I’m the same. And I masterbate sometimes 2 times in one day for a week, and then I go for months without masterbating. It just depends on different factors in my life really. Also, I grew up being taught that it was evil, so sometimes I don’t masterbate due to guilt. Which sucks and I wish I didn’t have that.

16. Single, so I get there alone. At least once every night with my toy. Helps me get decent sleep.

17. Multiple times a week. How I like to get there differs quite a bit; I always enjoy my partner, but sometimes I need some quality time with just myself.

18. I only want it from my partner now bc I love being intimate with him , but if I’m feeling frisky once a week .. maybe none at all . I have not seen my man for a week and I’ve been missing him so much . Get to see him Tuesday tho !

19. My sex drive fluctuates a lot so there is no number I’d want. Just when I’m in the mood I’d want an orgasm. I prefer through sex. I rarely masturbate because it’s not even half as good as sex. I only masturbate if the urge is killing me.

20. Honestly it depends, sometimes I’ll go 5 days straight, once a day, in the evening with mu vibrator and then there’s other times, like my current state, where I’ve orgasmed three times in about 16 days. I just can’t be bothered right now. I’m stressed.

21. I’d prefer to be banging my boyfriend but since he’s dead I’d say I do it myself like 1-3 times a week maybe. I have no toys though. The orgasms are quite meh but I prefer it to when I went 5 months without one lol.

    If I had it my way I’d be horny and railed on the normal lol

22. Vibrator combined with penetration. Three times a week is enough for me, but wouldn’t turn down more often

23. Definitely daily.. maybe twice.. usually can get one in alone. Then when he comes him I’m still more than happy to have some play time with mu hubs… High libido🤷🏼‍♀️

24. Usually a few times a month. I tend to forget about it, then randomly get in the mood and, having been reminded of it, do so for a few days until returning to not thinking about it.

    I kissed p often with my bf, but never got to full sex at the time. We were teens, so when my birthday made me 2 years older than him I got uncomfortable with the idea of that and broke up. I don’t think I was entirely ready either

25. I like to orgasm daily! But due to conflicting work schedules, my partner and I bang / orgasm about five times a week.

26. Every single day by myself. I would definitely prefer it with a partner but I can do it by myself just fine

27. I never had an orgasm