So we had an amazing first date, really really good chemistry and conversation, definitely attracted to each other too, she was quite flirty and then we ended up making out a bit at the end.

She was super responsive to me the same night and next couple days. Continuing being flirty, cute and fun.

She moved this week and has a family trip planned, so she did warn me she'd be less responsive, but it's been 5 days and I haven't heard from her.

I just sent her a quick msg on WhatsApp about something she could do on her trip today, which she didn't replied to but hearted the msg.

So like…..is she playing hard to get? I know her phone isn't roaming as we discussed this during the date and she also said she's got a complex relationship with her parents and it takes a lot out of her.

I'm fine with giving her space. It's one date, we're not obligated to msg everyday and we did make plans to meet up when she gets back.

I imagine she's taking a casual approach.

It's just slightly confusing given how responsive she was right after our first date.

Am I over analysing?

Problem for me is that she's extremely extremely attractive, probably the 2nd or 3rd most attractive girl I've dated in the last 2 years out of 20 women. But she's also the one I have the best chemistry with too. So for me this is a bit of a big deal.

Basically, I'm quite infatuated with her and thought she felt the same. But we'll see.

Thoughts?


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