Hey!
So I (21M) wanted to make sex longer, cause I can't go a long time when going hard&fast – which my female partner like.
So I'm trying not to ejaculate.
When I feel that I'm close to orgasm, I stop. When I go back to penetration/masturbating/receiving oral, it feels great, when I feel the orgasm coming again, I stop… – by stopping, I mean kissing, touching etc.
But when I get to the part, when I feel like cumming, I can hold it in – by doing some sort of kegels?
After that, I can't cum anymore. It doesn't even feel that good and after some time I don't have that strong erection
My partner doesn't find it very good, because she wants me to come – and I want to last longer (which she would also like).
Do you have any experience with this?
Any tips, how to last longer and still have an orgasm?
Thanks a lot and have a great day!