My(40m) wife(43f) is great at projects we need to complete. For instance, if we need to plan a birthday party for our kid, she will do an amazing job.
But our house looks like a beginner hoarder lives there because I'm they only one that cleans and I can't keep up.
I know she has ADHD and that's part of the problem but I'm at my limit. It doesn't feel safe for our kid. It's also setting a bad example
I'm just tired. I don't enjoy being married as the moment