The man I’m seeing has just informed that when he is having sex with me in doggy he can “smell the backshots”. I somewhat knew this was a thing but mostly thought it was a joke but I decided to look deeper into it research a little and everyone is saying “just wash your ass”.
Well, I DO! Very thoroughly, ESPECIALLY before I see him, with soap, and scrub it even with a loofah. He reassured me and let me know it has never bothered him and it’s just part of sex sometimes but I feel embarrassed and I don’t want a weird smell coming from me during. Is this a hygiene issue? I always wash myself after using the bathroom and I shower very frequently. Any tips on how to make it smell good or even remotely better?