To cut the story short, i met her on tinder, we were just friends but we texted a lot. Like, A LOT. We knew what we’re were doing all the time, we did phone calls, we told secrets about each other, we laughed, we sent voice msgs here and there. It was amazing, all this occurred in one month. We even met in person in our local university. We also used to chill a particular day in the uni between our classes, everything was fine.
I do had a crush on her, and i don’t know if she ever did, i know it’s been not many enough time, but i do like her, and wanted to know more about her. We even deleted tinder and we were both our only opposite sex friend, and that. One day, she stopped texting me, out of nowhere. I don’t know what happened, i don’t know, my mind is going nuts, i do feel bad since i don’t want to lose her since i genuinely liked our convos. We had deep convos, light convos, etc.
I am planning on sending another text and asking her what’s wrong, or something. I do care about her, but i don’t know, my mind tells me i should just give her space. Keep in mind we were the type that texted when we barely woke up, and this sudden change makes me feel down, honestly.
I had a history of two past female friendships where this exact thing happened to me, we texted a lot, we chilled and everything, knew about days, hours talking and one day, they went silent on me. But, those times i never reached out again, my pride won me over. I wanted to hear that they cared too so i stopped engaging and waited for a response, but nothing happened.
But i don’t want that happening here again, we had great chemistry, and one time she did told me that the only reason we could stop texting it’s because of her, because she overthinks or something like that, i don’t know. It’s been 2 days since she is been acting weird to me, now she is silent. Should i wait another day and reach out? Should i give her space or ask her already if something is going on?
TD;LR: Female friend i met on an app and in person is acting weird and distant after a month of engaging a lot. I miss her and i don’t want to lose our friendship