So my wife and I are both subs. We both love to be tied up and like to be treated rough and praise a dom. We have tired a lot of things. I know the simple answer is to take turns but when I’m in charge she’s super horny but I can’t get an erection. When she’s in charge I’m super hard but she doesn’t really get into the mood either.
We’ve talked about maybe adding another person to our sex lives but my wife doesn’t really care too much for that.
Any ideas yall have would be greatly appreciated. We both want to be able to have fun and please each other