Hiii redditors plz be kind as I am new to dating/getting to know people and just trying to form relationships in general it’s very tricky for me because of a lot of my insecurities and previous experiences in life🌻
BUT anywho I started talking to a guy that I met through Reddit and played some games and talked and the vibe was great and I surprisingly felt extremely comfortable and not shy or nervous like I usually am with everything. Before we were gonna go to bed, he asked if we could exchange pics and I already explained to him before about my insecurities and he said he had never met someone like me and that he loved the sound of my voice and he brought up multiple times throughout the night how he wanted to go out to eat and hang out etc. I sent him my pic first and then he sent me his. But what set off the crazy brain was him not making any acknowledgment to my appearance. He just sent me his and I told him he was handsome and adorable but he never gave me any response back. And me being the overthinker that I am, began to feel insecure and gross and like he hated me instantly now. We ended on a good night after I tried to play it cool and not mentioning how it made me feel until the next day. I told him that after sending my pic I thought he felt like I made it weird or something and how I should blame my brain for overthinking and he said I didn’t make it weird and to stop overthinking. I didn’t really reach out or respond as vibrantly as I did prior to this because I got hung up emotionally with other things but mostly because I felt like he didn’t find me attractive and didn’t want to say it but wanted a way out. He didn’t really reach out until 5 days later to tell me he was going to un-add me because he wants people to talk to everyday☹️ am I crazy I know I am but do you all understand why I felt taken aback to continue talking?