Is being sexually aggressive as a woman a turn off?

Hi! I’m back in the dating scene after taking a long break. I’ve been told by some of my guy friends and coworkers (we talk about our dating lives alot) that I’m running guys off by being really aggressive sexually or very forward. I normally wait until the conversations flow well in general before things get steered sexually. I’m really big on complementing and may tell them that they look extra sexy in that uniform or in those jeans pull them down or you’re so handsome but you’d look better between my legs. Don’t get me wrong I’m all for them taking control too. I’m just not shy about telling them when I’m horny. Should I tone it down more in order to get a man?