so the girl I have been dating for like 3 weeks we had like a really fun time together and almost had like sex a few times.
she out of nowhere said I am going to pick the other dude I also been texting too him because I said to her response ' I really like you but I wanne keep things slow'
after we texted like so much past weeks
so my question is: if I told her like something else would she changed her mind or could I have said anything with like the same outcome?