Are modern American women as deranged as the internet (especially YouTube) says they are?

I'm talking about deranged with their expectations of men. Specifically when it comes to romantic partners or potential romantic partners. I've watched countless podcasts and youtube videos saying they are. I mean it's all over the internet. YouTube is flooded with them. But I have severe mental issues (Including very severe generalized anxiety disorder and PTSD) that keep me in my house everyday so I haven't had any interaction with actual real life American women and haven't dated in like 15 years. So I'm hoping to get some feedback from men who have actually had a social life and have been talking to real life women, not these ditzy women on these podcasts and youtube videos. And I wanna get some opinions from men on this topic who aren't trying to sell me content. And that's basically what everyone on youtube is trying to do.