Hello Reddit peeps
I (24f) recently found out that my partner (27m) has a porn addiction. I have asked him a few times throughout our 2 year relationship if he watched porn and he always said no.
I have nothing against porn and have simply stated I would just prefer if he didn’t watch it while I am home (stupid to some, but it is a boundary for me). But again like I said at he always told me he does not watch porn.
I found NSFW Reddit history and porn in his Google history. Keep in mind we are together 90% of the time other than work so this had to have been done at home, work or in his truck??? I confronted him about this and he flat out stated he has had a long time problem.
I asked why he never told me and chose to lie when I asked him multiple times about it. He simply said because it’s not my problem and he needs to deal with it himself. I disagree with this statement because there are many relationships where people help their partners through the same thing. I understand how to can be embarrassing to admit but I am wrong for also thinking he should have told me?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated – Have a great weekend!