different sex drives

Hi! I'm 22 and I started seeing a man who's 27 about a month and a half ago. I really like him, he's sweet, funny, talented, and I like his slightly older age as well. We waited for a little while to have sex, probably 3 weeks. It was good, the next time was better, and the most recent time was pretty good. The only problem is I definitely have sexual fantasies that I want to fulfill or at least dip my toes into but he seems a little hesitant. I can't blame him and I can't make him be into something he's not. I am very horny and I want to have sex multiple times a night whether it's oral or penetration. It's sort of a one time and it's over thing. I want him to be a little more commanding but I feel embarrassed to ask because it doesn't seem to come super naturally to him. I'm not sure what to do. I spent a lot of my life being afraid of sex and now that I've moved forward I really really want to enjoy it and get weird w it. There hasn't been a ton of progression in that sense. I just want to get FUCKED!!! 😔