There is a guy I met recently through work, who is conventionally attractive, fit and extremely desired by practically everyone in our office. Honestly, I was expecting him to be a douche because of this but he shows a lot of humility and some signs of low self esteem.
He could just be nervous, but it's made me wonder how men that seemingly "have it all" can still feel inadequate?
Update: Thank you all so so much for the contributions. Not only did I get some amazing answers to my question, but to many other questions I didn't even know even needed to be addressed. Thank you for being strong and helping to shape and build out society in the best way you can. You are all worthy of love and respect, from yourselves, each other and, of coudse, women. Men are the pillars of our communities. You deserve respect for who you are. You each have a unique purpose and gift to offer this world. I know that!
Thank you bringing awareness to the hardships you face as a man in the modern world. You have touched my heart, and I will strive to be a good woman to the men in my life.