A few weeks ago I met a guy out at a bar with a live band and we hit it off, danced a while, and he asked for my #. He told me he wanted to take me out and a week went by and I didn’t hear from him. I reached out in a silly way and we made plans. He made a reservation at a cute spot (I was running about 5 mins late) but we had great conversation and I told him if he was up for it, my friends cover band is playing down the street. He was into it and we headed over. I grabbed us a round of beers and we hit the dance floor. I could tell he was having fun singing all the songs and dancing together. We went to the back room with the band on their break and went back out to the dance floor and listened to a few more songs and he said “hey I think I’m gonna head out” we held hands as we left and I realized I was quite tipsy (not on purpose!) he walked me to my car and we made out a little and told me to text him when I get home.
I made it home, texted him, he “♥️”ed it but I havnt heard from him. I’m a little embarrassed about getting slightly too tipsy.
To be honest, it’s the first date I’ve been on in a while where we didn’t meet online. I can tell he’s not the best texter but dang I can’t help but overthink a bunch.
Anxiety sucks. So here I am, asking the men.
Would you call any of these little things a deal breaker? Being a little late or ending a little tipsy?