I (m22) need some advice here. My girlfriend (f23) and I have been dating for about a year now, and we're pretty open about our sexual preferences. We've tried a bunch of stuff, and I always make sure she's comfortable and enjoys it. But here's the thing – I really want to try doggy style. Like, I've brought it up a few times because it seems like it could be fun and different, right?
Every time I mention it, she just shuts it down. She says she's not into it, and I respect that, so I drop it. But it's kinda frustrating because I feel like I'm always trying to make sure she's happy, doing all the things she likes, and when there's something I really want to try, it's a no-go.
Am I being selfish for feeling this way? I don't want to pressure her, but at the same time, it feels a bit one-sided sometimes. Any advice on how to approach this without making her feel uncomfortable or like I'm pushing her boundaries? Or am I just being a jerk for even thinking this way?
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