im a 22 yr old female and i had my first relationship at 19.
we instantly connected and built a relationship based on that connection. at the time i believed we were special but when i told my friends they said i only felt that way bc he’s my first.
i broke up with him last year, while sometimes i regretted it i stuck to my decision.
i felt that we will get back together in the future (like 5 yrs from then).
until i found out that he got in a relationship so i moved on and saw other people.
but i never felt a connection as deep as i had with him, even after weeks of seeing the same person. i havent felt anything holding hands or flirting with anyone.
i think we really were special.
now im not looking to get him back or anything. its in the past and thats destiny. but will i find someone else? or was he my soulmate?
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Nope. There’s also no ‘the one’, there’s just someone you liked more than anyone else so far.
No, but you’re more compatible to some people than to others
Healthy relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.
There are millions of people who can do that with you, but billions of people who can’t, simple math.
Nah, that’s why a lot of divorces occur.
Inevitably everyone usually settles for someone.