When we turn into doggy position, i arch, and theres like a long feeling 5-10 second pause where he doesn’t touch me or begin?? It makes me feel awkward and confused like wtf is going on so I end up turning back around. And we do something else.

I am very pear shaped , small upper body and waist but thick thighs wide hips and butt. So i feel like nervous because is it my shape?? Is it that my bum is darker?? I never had this problem with exes. Now I’m sad feeling and literally googled how to bleach my bum. Doggy used to be my favorite. What is going on back there?? Any ideas?

I know I could ask him. Idk why I don’t want to. Maybe he will lie or not know what Im talking about. Or if he tells me the truth maybe it would hurt me?


37 comments

  1. If you really want to know, you’d need to ask him. I think it’s not unusual to admire the view and soak in the moment for a couple seconds, though. Not at all unusual.

  4. Hell, he might be catching his breath and talking himself off the edge of the brink of orgasm. It could be that he’s taking in and enjoying the view. You shouldn’t automatically assume that it’s something wrong with you. The only way to truly know is to ask him.

  5. I think he could just be liking what he sees and he’s just enjoying the view for a minute. Just ask him.

  7. Hahahaha… maybe he is gassed and needs some cardio. I wouldn’t necessarily think that means he is looking at asshole.

  8. Very likely he is just enjoying the view… now you’ll have to ask him if he was admiring your AH or Dat azz

  9. I would suspect admiring the view, don’t bleach, a bum hole is a bum hole, I know my wife is clean, I’d rather like it than bleach it 😋.
    5-10 seconds ? I could look at my wife in doggy for hours, no lie 🤓😜😛🍆

  10. You have to try to stop that disaster train of thought that syarts with him pausing for five seconds and ends up with you googling bleached anus, without even asking him. Come on girl. No one knows what’s going on but your guy. If you wanna you you need to ask. And also, chill out for a minute. He’s with you, clearly he likes you. Don’t belittle him and yourself by indulging in these crazy antics.

    You’re afraid his answer might hurt you, but you are hurting yourself even more by obsessing over what-ifs.

  11. He’s worried he’s going to cum quick. Maybe you have a great arch. Ass is looking really good in doggy so he’s praying to the gods so he doesn’t cum quick

  13. this kind of thing is posted all the time! I guess I can understand, in a way, why you ladies wouldn’t think that we find the view so freaking awesome! If I look at my own equipment, even though it’s been really good to me over the years , it really isn’t a whole lot to look at. So I imagine you ladies feel the same way about your equipment, but believe me, I’ve been around for a long time, seen and done a lot, and the view from the back door, is absolutely one of the best views in life! stop being critical about yourself, stop, thinking the worst, believe me we really love what we’re looking at!

  16. He could be stroking himself to get himself hard again so he can get it in. When I change positions I can start to lose my hard on

  19. I almost always pause to enjoy the pussy view. He likely is too. Doggie is awesome for the visuals.

  20. I do this too, gotta appreciate the view, caress the cheeks, just savour everything before diving in.

    I doubt he’s staring at your asshole, more likely taking in the entire view.

  21. Ummmm, WHAT!!??!

    You have no idea how hot you girl’s assholes are. The color does not matter. Guys go crazy over every little aspect of the female form. The arch, the butt, the pussy, cheeks, the asshole and everything in between. I definitely take it in and pause because I’m enjoying the moment and it makes me hornier. I’m hard now just talking about this … Ugh. Trust me, it’s all good stuff! Maybe he does want to rim it.. ask him and you’ll really enjoy that I promise.

  22. Any man who doesn’t stop in his tracks and stare for a moment, at any woman in that amazing position, but *especially* the incredible pear shape which is the best shape, doesn’t have a pulse. I literally can’t even believe what I see when a pear shaped woman takes that position in front of me, I can’t believe this world is real in that moment.

  23. I’m sorry, but … if you want to know, you really do just need to ask him. You could even do it jokingly, doesn’t have to a be a serious sit-down convo. I’ve asked my boyfriend, out of curiosity, if he likes to look at my butthole when he’s back there. He said, “Yep!”, I laughed, and that was the end of it.

    You’re going to get a jillion different speculative reasons about why he could be pausing, but the definitive answer will have to come from your boyfriend. Before you make the leap to *anal bleaching*, just talk to your partner.

  25. I always pause too and it’s to admire my wife’s beauty and to thank God, the stars or whoever else it is that this woman is mine And I get to fuck her

  26. He’s either taking a deep breath so he doesn’t cum the second he puts it in or he’s admiring the view thinking daaamn this is nice

  27. i look at my wife like that, but that’s because it’s arousing. incredibly arousing. maybe it’s the same for him

  28. He’s almost certainly admiring the view. And you don’t need a perfect porn-star quality butthole for him to love it.

  31. My boyfriend will pause in new positions and he says he’s just admiring 🙂

    He seems to like having sex with you, he probably likes looking at your body while he does it!

  32. That is the best view in the world. No man every cared about anal bleachig.

    He is catching his breath or considering his next move.

  33. Sometimes I pause when I see my wife in that position and I’m just admiring how beautiful she is and how much I love her body. He’s probably just taking in every inch of you and appreciating how lucky he is to be with you.

    Don’t overthink.

  34. When I go swimming in a lake, I often pause at the edge of the water, just to soak in the beautiful view before I slide in.

  35. We do be inspecting your booty hole at times I can’t lie 😂😂

    Note that we dont care about the color, so dont worry about bleaching

  36. It doesn’t have to be your asshole. That’s just one of the amazing sights you can look at when a woman is in that position. It’s really perfect for visual enjoyment. Everything is on display perfectly and just the act of being in that position and naked is the most perfect non verbal “fuck me” energy I can think of. Even more visually suggestive than on her back with legs spread.

    It’s basically impossible to not take a good look when someone is presenting that way for you.

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