Both M19. He has had multiple partners, and along with them, multiple sexual partners. I'll call him Adam for the sake of the post.
A few days ago Adam was sleeping over at my apartment and one of his exes called him drunk begging him to come over. He couldn't, but she kept begging and begging and begging for what felt like half an hour.
For the millionth time I got a glimpse into what other guys get to experience. Sitting right next to me was a guy my age, from a background not too different to mine, who had a girl begging him for sex.
And then there was me. I've never even had sex. Only girl that ever gave me a shot threw me away like a used napkin after she found someone she liked more. The farthest our sex life ever went was me fingering her. I always made sure she came, and she never gave a shit about me in the slightest.
While my friend here has a girl begging him to fuck her.
If anyone can give me some advice on how to deal with the frustration that'd be great. (no, masturbation doesn't help as my frustration isn't purely sexual)
Some advice regarding actually getting sex would be great, too.