19M. I've been overweight for almost my entire life. I have been losing a lot of weight lately, and I'm very close to a healthy weight – I'm about 15 pounds above my ideal weight, losing 2-3 pounds every week.
My appearance has gotten much better since my weight loss, and so has my confidence. However, I'm still very insecure about approaching this girl I find attractive. I'm not super beautiful, but I'm also not bad looking.
This makes me think: since my appearance has been getting better the more weight I lose, should I try approaching her now or wait a bit more? I feel some sense of urgency to try something now because soon our routines are going to change (semester is ending), and I'm going to have fewer opportunities to see her.