Seriously, if you're a man who's shy and awkward what do you do? Someone has to make the first move, which is the guy 99% of the time but it's just not in my nature. And it's not like I'm some loser; I work full-time, go to college, I've built my life from nothing and have plenty of hobbies. I'm just very passive and avoidant in social situations
I did confess my feelings once to a girl I knew on and off for a years, and she ghosted me. This was half a year ago
What can I do to be better? Is it bad for a man to be antisocial, should I do therapy?