TL;DR. My bf 'M/24'and I 'F/24'may be on rocks right now. This feels like my first heartbreak that hurts really bad. I have been in long term relationships before and so has he.
Despite us only being together 7 months, this feels like the healthiest and happiest relationship I’ve been in. We were happy. We never argue much, he always reassures me when I need it. Very softspoken and overall a kindhearted guy. That’s why it feels so much worse. If he was treating me badly, I would’ve been able to handle this easier. He told me that every relationship he gets in, he ends up losing feelings and he doesn’t know why.
We are open with each other about everything and I know he struggles with mental health issues too. He says he’s scared of losing me and he does still love and care for me but he’s worried it’s not gonna be on the same level. I do trust him and it breaks my heart to hear. The fact he doesn't know if he's gonna love me the same and it happens to him with every partner but with me it feels more heartbreaking. We have been long distance and have seen each other and the connection was stronger in person. We spend every single day together, ofc he still always goes out with friends and have a social life but through the 7 months we have always been around each other: we suggested giving each other space to think. Maybe he doesn’t realize what he has until he can feel the absence.
Can I get advice or opinion because this really sucks. He is truly a kind but troubled guy. Never mistreated me ever. I don't want to give up on him and I hope he will come around. What should I do? I would like to know how to cope with this situation in a healthy way.