i’m a 18m who’s just gotten a serious girlfriend and i’m having trouble staying hard during sex we have had sex twice now and both times i have gotten soft and it just does not feel as pleasing as i would’ve expected
for a little backstory when i was 16 i lost my virginity while i was drunk and couldn’t get hard either and i believe that has stemmed a long term fear of that but now it is affecting me with a girl i really care about and is affecting my relationship
what should i do??