I met this girl at work who I found really hot. I have a pretty clear idea of what I want in a girlfriend (personality and values wise) and this girl is the opposite of that, but she's really hot and she's the one who started flirting with me so I played along.
After a few weeks of talking I went to her place and things immediately got heated. Let me say that I was beyond horny and looking forward to this, but 2 minutes in I suddenly didn't want to anymore and stopped.
The best I can explain it is "post nut clarity" but well before the nut. I just suddenly lost interest in her.
She kept asking what happened and was visibly upset but I didn't know how to explain it because frankly I was just as confused as her.
She then started crying and calling me names, I tried to comfort her but she pushed me away so I made my way out.
I sent her an apology trying to explain myself but no response. Luckily we don't have to interact at all at work or it'd be mortifying.
This was a week ago and I still have no idea what happened to me in that moment.
I think what put me off is that it was all so sudden and …. loveless? I'm kind of a hopeless romantic and she was clearly not interested in that side of me so I guess that did it.
Ah well, I can already see the comments calling me gay or something.