I (21M) am a virgin. I’ve also never had my first kiss. Is it okay or fair if I look for a girl who also has those same qualities?

I've just been waiting for the right girl. I don't wanna waste my "firsts" on a girl I might never talk to again which is why I've been really patient. I could be with a girl who's done "it" before. But I also wanna experience when it's the both of you exploring it for the first time, figuring stuff out, and experiencing the awkwardness (as some people describe) when doing it for the first time.