Me and my partner have been messing around for about a year and a half and just recently started having sex. But since around January or even a little before we haven’t made out once. Sex is nice but I really miss making out I’ve tried bringing this up to him. Like ALOT. And usually he tells me he’s shy and I initiate which is also an issue. I don’t want to be the only one initiating things sexually or not anymore. I’ve expressed that and he’s said he’ll try but nothing happens. We’ve been dating for almost 4 years and I just don’t feel like I should have to beg to be kissed. he kisses me on the forehead sometimes and that’s nice but it’s just not enough for me. I want to feel desired and sought after. We used to make out a lot and for abit I was okay with not making out but it’s really eating at me. Any thoughts on how I should express this to him in a way that will really make him understand?


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  1. Bring it up again and be blunt about how you feel. Men aren’t very good at picking up on subtle clues. But seeing as it’s been close to a year, you might be happier finding someone who worships you without you having to beg for it. Unless you’re both into that sorta thing.

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