So im 25M and im going out with this woman( 29F) I’m madly in love with for about 6 months now, and she has 2 kids from her ex-husband, i don’t mind the kids at all when we spent time together, soon we will probably move in together and I’m starting to realise that il have a big influence on these kids and how they grow..
And what happens when we have a kid of our own it will be tricky to separate my position in their life, considering that her ex is still around and taking care of their kids..
Anyone that’s been through this?
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Please don’t move in with a single mum after only being together 6 months. That’s not enough time for you or her to actually get to know one another. Also, the way you talk about step kids is unnerving, like they won’t be as important to you when you have a bio kid. If you don’t think you can love the step kids as well as a bio kid, please do the mum a favour and just end it now.
Raising someone else’s kid is a completely no for me. If you want to ruin your life go for it. If your smart get out of that relationship and look for someone whose your age or younger with no kids.
Unless her partner was ded I would say no if he is still kicking around.