SOOOOO I’m (F 25) queer but I’ve only had sex with men hence why I’m a beginner. I’ve been seeing a girl casually and while we have loads of sexual chemistry, she’s very sub and I’m more of a switch. Recently she told me she’d love it if I was a bit more rough and aggressive with her and she’s super hot, so obviously I agreed 💀💀 BUT the problem is I’ve only been dom in hetero sex so being dominant with a woman is completely new to me.
Does anybody have tips or moves I can try on her that are dom in a more “womanly” way? Or something that feels safe? How I can dirty talk without making her feel uncomfortable? Maybe cuz of porn I’ve been conditioned to accept really rough and degrading sex with men, but I’m not sure if I want to inflict that on my current partner. IDK AM I OVERTHINKING IT??